If a close friend becomes a new mom, we might be even more excited than the baby's father. After all, we've been there for her the longest, witnessing her ups and downs in her love life, and even being her bridesmaids. More than the baby, we'd care about the new mom herself. Having just given birth, she's endured the pain and discomfort of childbirth, and now faces the pressure of recovery, emotional ups and downs, severe sleep deprivation, and a complete loss of personal space. At this time, she truly needs immense comfort and encouragement. Any gift that makes her feel loved and cared for, anything that brings her joy, is welcome!
First, consider her life and parenting perspective. Choose gifts that help solve her practical problems, as these are the real challenges she'll face. Parenthood is a profession without training; most people learn as they go. Start with this and select a few practical gifts that express your feelings.
Of course, the gift doesn't necessarily have to be tied to the role of "mom." After all, besides being a mother, she's also an independent woman, and much of her joy and happiness comes from her other roles. New mothers often experience anxiety and a sense of loss as they adjust to their new life role. As family and friends, when giving gifts, we should consider their individual needs, helping them avoid depression and nurturing their mental and physical well-being.
I think my readers are all little angels, you're so heartwarming. Having you all is definitely their greatest happiness. Without further ado, I will recommend some suitable gifts for new mothers from the two perspectives mentioned above.

I. Practical Essentials Recommendation

Nursing Chair

Breastfeeding is a process most mothers go through. Maintaining one position for extended periods while breastfeeding is bad for both mother and baby. Newborns often wake up after being put down and need to be held constantly, which can cause back pain for new mothers whose bodies haven't fully recovered. Gifting a nursing chair is a great idea, it not only provides a comfortable position for breastfeeding but can also be used in everyday life.
It's adjustable, offers independent support, and features separate support for the neck, lower back, and legs. It can also correct breastfeeding posture, making breastfeeding easier. The lumbar support pillow further enhances lumbar support. It can also be used as a recliner or a baby's chair when learning to sit. It's a truly useful item for both a baby and new mother.

Diaper Bag

Besides breastfeeding, going out with a baby is a major challenge for new mothers. After becoming a mom, going out feels like moving house. There are so many things to bring when traveling with a baby: changes of clothes, formula, diapers... If you don't bring everything, all sorts of problems can arise. To avoid adding to the hassle, consider gifting her a multi-functional diaper backpack. It will help new mothers face their new life with less chaos and more order, making having a baby a joy, not a hassle.
When choosing a diaper bag, it's essential to select a large-capacity, easy-to-manage style. Quality is paramount, it must be odorless and preferably made of waterproof material. Many diaper bags available online now perfectly meet the needs of new mothers: they feature numerous small compartments, each with an insulated divider for keeping things warm or cold; a user-friendly bottom opening for easy access without rummaging; side pockets for tissues and wipes; and three carrying options (shoulder carry, hand carry, car hook) for convenient travel. When choosing, it's helpful to consult friends and family who have already had babies to avoid making the wrong choice.

Infant and Toddler Encyclopedia

For new mothers, no matter how much experience and advice they've heard, unexpected problems are inevitable in the process of raising children. Having a good infant and toddler encyclopedia is essential. A new mother reader strongly recommended "Caring for Your Baby and Young Child, 7th Edition: Birth to Age 5," which lists common problems and solutions according to the baby's age. Feedback suggests it resolves most new mothers' doubts. Reading it beforehand during pregnancy provides peace of mind. I also recommend Pamela Druckerman's "Bringing Up Bébé: One American Mother Discovers the Wisdom of French Parenting," which is also very suitable for new mothers.

Children's Washing Machine

Babies' immune systems are not fully developed, so extra care must be taken to maintain hygiene. Their clothes should not be washed with adult clothes, otherwise cross-contamination of bacteria is easy. However, hand washing is time-consuming and laborious, and taking care of a baby is already tiring enough. I recommend gifting her a children's washing machine specifically designed for washing baby clothes; it's incredibly practical. For families with babies, freeing up their hands and saving time is a real treat.
When choosing a model, don't select one that's too large, as it will take up too much space, since babies only have so many clothes. Focus on a full range of functions, such as a model with high-temperature washing, steam washing, and a baby-specific washing mode. Whether it's everyday clothes, bibs, or underwear, it can be cleaned specifically, ensuring cleanliness and peace of mind.

Night Light

New mothers often need to get up at night to breastfeed after giving birth. Turning on the room lights might be too bright and wake the baby. A beautiful night light is a perfect gift, serving not only as a decoration but also as an essential item for nighttime tasks like diaper changes, bathing, and feeding.
Many night lights on the market are very attractively designed, just looking at them makes them a winning gift. Functionally, they often support app remote control and adjustable light levels. As the baby gets older, they can even be used as a fun toy.

Parenting Journal

Having a child can make them seem like their entire life. Babies can't express themselves yet, crying often and sometimes smiling sweetly. Many mothers want to capture every first moment, but new mothers are often overwhelmed with tasks and may not have time for that. A parenting journal specifically designed for mothers of babies under one year old is a great gift. It helps record each baby's first experience, helping mothers find their rhythm in caring for their child and preventing them from feeling overwhelmed.
Parenting Journal A planner is designed with different functional modules and beautiful illustrations, serving as a diary for recording a baby's life, feeding, and the mother's feelings. Besides helping mothers better manage their baby's diet and daily routine, keeping a planner can also alleviate mothers' anxiety and fatigue, ultimately becoming a meaningful gift for the child as they grow up.

II. Heartwarming Item Recommendation

Foldable Mini Table

During postpartum recovery, new mothers often need to rest in bed, which may require eating or handling chores in bed. A foldable, height-adjustable mini table may not be expensive, but it will definitely be useful.
This small desk is incredibly versatile. It can be placed on the bed, a coffee table, or even carried around. The desktop features a non-slip guard, ensuring stability for laptops and tablets. Combined with small drawers and a simple bookshelf, it provides convenient storage for a mouse, documents, and cutlery, perfectly meeting the needs of eating, relaxing, and working. It allows for a more relaxed and comfortable lifestyle for postpartum mothers, whether relaxing or working.

SPA Membership Card

After giving birth, a SPA membership card might be the best gift. It's not just a reward, but also a sign of care. It allows her to temporarily say goodbye to motherhood and enjoy this moment of solitude. Relaxing her mind and body and taking care of her skin will give her the energy to face new challenges. This exclusive pampering is something you're giving her.

Skincare Products

Give a new mom a skincare set. Having completed this milestone, she should continue to look beautiful. As her best friend, you suggest a skincare set that constantly reminds her of her love for beauty! Using it every day will remind her of you, warming her heart. New moms often focus a lot of energy on their babies, neglecting themselves, let alone their appearance. Perhaps your gift is also a reminder that no matter what, she should never forget herself.

Cosmetics

Mothers were once beautiful girls, and becoming a mother shouldn't change that. You could choose to give her a lipstick, foundation, eyeshadow, or blush in a suitable shade. This gift reminds her that besides being a mother, she is still a radiant and lovable person. It lets her show her best self even in the midst of a busy parenting life.

Portable Neck and Shoulder Massager

One hour of breastfeeding with your head down + countless times bending over to change diapers can easily ruin your neck, shoulders, and back! Choose a portable neck and shoulder massager that fits in your bag. You can use it while sitting down, with heat therapy and pulse modes. It provides instant relief afterward, much more practical than flowers. Plus, the whole family can use it, making it economical and affordable. For some mothers who are struggling to care for their babies alone, this might be a lifesaver.

No matter the type of gift, as long as it's carefully chosen, she should be touched, hug you, kiss your cheek, and say: "Thank you, darling, I love it." What you need to do, besides the above, is to provide deep companionship, which is also the last gift I want to share today.